Good news for anyone who has ever
twitched with rage at the friend who constantly posts selfies of their
apparently perfect life online: the biggest offenders could be damaging their
romantic relationships. Researchers are working to understand how selfies affect
our self perception and the quality of our romantic relationships. The team
behind an initial study entitled “The online ideal persona vs the jealousy
effect” sound that the more selfies a couple take, the more likely they will
view their relationship as a “lower quality”. They pinned this down to jealousy
stemming from the comments about the pictures, as well as the creation of an “online
ideal persona” that was different to real life.
Other studies have also revealed
how social media surveillance of a romantic partner is associated with greater
jealousy, insecurity and dissatisfaction in relationships. Their findings
follow a previous study by the same team which found that those who were more
narcissistic take more selfies, but that the photos also boosted feelings of
self-importance. To make those findings, they surveyed 314 people aged between
18 to 65 years old, and again a year later. The respondents were asked to rank
on a one to five scale questions including “I like to be the centre of attention,”
“I will never be satisfied until I get all that I deserve,” and “I like to look
at myself in their mirror,” according to Pacific Magazine. The researchers also
asked how frequently the participants took and shared photos of themselves on
social media.

