Sometimes it so happens that you
when wake up to a new dawn, your body feels light, the mind is like a free bird
in the sky, and the freshness you feel is like a miracle. Nothing specific has
happened in your sleep, or before it. You wonder, who or what put you on Cloud
Nine. This shall remain a mystery, because the source of this energy will be
unknown.
“No give, no take,” may be a good
policy in formal relationships, as it may save time and effort. But beyond
that, a gift is an expression of love and gratitude. And love and gratitude are
the qualities of the ‘Loving Heart.’
There
are many spiritual practitioners who refuse gifts as it puts them under
obligation of another person; it becomes the cause of your karma. Swami Vivekananda
writes:”Whoever receives gift, his mind is acted by the mind of the giver, and
makes us mere slaves. Therefore, receive nothing.”
But
then Sri Krishna in Gita say, ”Bring me a leaf or a flower in devotion and love
and I shall accept it.” Even Krishna is happy with a gift or two, though it may
be as small and as natural as flower. Sindhis believe that when you visit a
saint, you do not go empty handed. We visit a holy place or saint to seek
blessings. When we receive, we should acknowledge in gratitude; one way to do
that is to offer something.
Giving is
natural. Those who live within the parameters of human society are bound to
mingle with others and in the process create new karmas. And if gifts can bring
joy, why not give? Anything given with love is uplifting. How does one express
one’s love to those who don’t accept gifts? Living as we are in the fellowship
of other human beings, bonding at various levels of social interaction is
inevitable. It is our basic nature to love. Love is pure energy. To express it,
to gift it, without obligation, and without creating new karma is difficult.
But, Love
does not lie in these trinkets. Pray. Prayer is also a soul quality. Pray for
that person’s welfare, for his wellbeing and happiness. Yes! It is someone’s
love prayer which puts you on Cloud Nine!

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